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IMHO #2
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Fish out of Water: Vietnamese Party
The social event I attended was a birthday party for my aunt Mimi at her house. She is Vietnamese, and everyone who attended the party was Vietnamese, except for a few Mexican’s including myself. The party was for my aunt’s 40th birthday, and she decided to have the party at her house because it wasn’t going to be that big of a party. There were about 15-20 people at the party, and there was a lot of food. My aunt was in the kitchen cooking along with her mom, sisters, and aunt’s. There was a lot of mingling with the family, there weren’t many friends of my aunt, and it was mostly just her family.
When it was time to eat, my aunt took the food out, and thanked everyone for coming. My aunt’s mother did a prayer in Vietnamese, and everyone joined in, then they began to eat. The food consisted of two different types of soup; steam rice, and a few chicken and pork dishes. The food was amazing, and it was fun because everyone talked at the table and conversed while they ate. I’m used to the table being for eating only, and also not even eating at the table. My home life is a lot different then my aunt’s when it comes to eating.
When everyone was done eating, they all sat on the couches and chairs and talked more. The talking between families was very important at the party, and must be important to my aunt. There was no Television, or computers, there was only mingling, and conversing between the people at the party. There was also a lot of alcohol, and drinking was pretty normal. Everyone seemed happy at the party, there was no conflict, people even tried to talk to me and they didn’t know me.
The party definitely gave me a different perspective on the Vietnamese culture, and it was a lot of fun to be apart of the event. I was there mostly as a guest, and conversed with people and took part in the activities at the party. I wasn’t used to eating that type of food, I usually eat a lot of traditional Mexican food at my house, so it was nice to try something new. Another thing that was different was the language; there were a lot of people speaking in Vietnamese. At my household, even though we are Mexican, we mostly speak English. Overall, the party was fun, and I learned a lot.